As I was driving home, I stopped by one of the stalls along the road that sells Nasi Katok. I think the Nasi Katok got its popularity only recently. It's probably one of the cheapest meal to fill the locals stomach. And especially during this World Cup period, I can see that customers in the Nasi Katok Stalls have increased.
The stall that I visited is one of the most popular stall in Brunei, it even operates in 24 hours. However it was the first time that I went there. I wasn't quite sure the exact location at the time I was driving along the main road. So I slowed down to try to hunt for the place, which is just beside the road side. A few cars were parked at the side of the road, but there was this one car reversing. However at that time, I made a 90 degree turn into the a parking spot behind the car that was reversing. I took his parking spot, not knowing he wanted to reverse to that spot from which he can get down closest to the stall as possible. However there were plenty of space in front of him for him to park, so I thought it was alrite.
So I went down and ordered my Nasi Katok, he came after that.
He said, "Where did you get your license?" I replied, "Why?"
He then said, "I almost hit your car while reversing just now, didn't you see me reversing?"
I said, "Yes I did, but I thought you were just adjusting your car at that time to park at the front, as there is a simpang (junction) behind your car. Anyway, my apologies, it's my mistake."
He mumbled the same thing again, and feeling a bit of guilt I apologised to him yet again.
After a moment of silence while we were both waiting for our orders, he asked me:
"Where are you from?" I said "I'm a local." He then said "That's not how the local supposed to act". I think he is referring to my driving. Smiling to him, I said "Well I apologised to you, what more do you want from me?"
He said, "I accepted your apologies, since you're local I shouldn't talk to you that way".
At that instant, I was bemused. I told him, "It doesn't matter whether or not I'm a local, we should not be rude to anyone." He went on to say "Well we local should not talk like that among each other." I repeated "No, so you are saying if I'm an outsider you could have treated me differently right now?" At that time, the nasi katok seller started asking him questions, so I left.
I am quite disturbed by what he said. This however is not the first time I have heard how the locals mistreated the foreigners. My message to everyone is that, we should not treat the outsiders any different way than how we treat our fellow locals. How depressing to learn some locals to have a 'bully' attitude towards the outsiders.